Do you appreciate your parents and treasure your relationship with them? Read what these teens have to say.
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The gospel teaches otherwise. It is important to realize how your parents have influenced your life, what they have taught you, what their strengths are, and how you can work to gain a better relationship with them.
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Here are some reflections and some advice from other young men and women on how to appreciate and talk with your parents. They also have taught me the importance of getting good grades. My dad is good at that. I can get so mad at him, and he will never get mad back. Even though they work a lot, they always make time to have fun with our family.
We have both family time and one-on-one time together. We go to all of the Church activities, and they make sure we get there on time. She makes sure we try to do as many family activities as possible. Talking with my parents helps too. When I talk to my parents, I tell them pretty much everything I do.
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Some women walk away because their families cannot afford the daycare they need to stay employed. Some women walk away because their families can afford for them not to work. And some women, like myself, walk because the career they have and the parent they want to be with the spouse they have chosen cannot seem to exist in the same life. I did not make this decision with imperfect knowledge of what the workplace would offer when I returned. I made it with no knowledge.
'What Do You Do?': A Stay-at-Home-Mother's Most Dreaded Question
The monetary and nonmonetary costs were incalculable and barely studied at the time. But a Harvard study shows that the earnings penalty to MBAs for taking a job interruption of as little as 18 months, within 15 years of receiving a bachelors degree, is an astounding 41 percent. Although career reentry expert Carol Fishman Cohen explains it is important to note that survey participants may intentionally choose a lower-compensated job post-career break for reasons ranging from simply wanting a less stressful job to wanting more schedule flexibility.
And the non-monetary costs can be every bit as daunting. Walking away from my job was tinged with the feeling of failure.
What It’s Really Like to Work Full-Time and Be a Mom
Even in the face to two beautiful little boys and another on the way, it was hard to find a narrative to tell myself:. You can't tell yourself that you did not love that job anyway, because that is a reason to leave a particular position, not the workforce. You could tell yourself that your kids will be better off cared for only by you, but there is no research that bears that out, and while there are times that intense parental engagement is needed, working parents are able to achieve that, too. You can't tell yourself that you will be happier, because the studies suggest the opposite.
Although for any individual woman staying at home might lead to less stress, more happiness, and a better situation for her family, studies continue to confirm that there is more boredom and depression in mothers who stay home than among mothers who work full or part time. You try to tell yourself that if you will rejoin the workforce in a position like the one you once held.
Although it could happen, it cannot be counted upon.
You can't tell yourself that others will perceive you the same whether you are working or not. After years at home our sense of ourselves as a working professional diminishes and with it, the way others view us. Former colleagues may remember you in the workplace, but many people will now know you only as a stay-at-home mom. I would not presume to speak for another woman on the planet. But in a paradox that is not a contradiction: I am glad for every moment I was given to spend with my children, and I have misgivings about my decision to leave the work world behind.
I want to preface everything I am about to say with the caveat that I loved being home with my sons. I felt it was a gift to be their mother and to be present in their lives every day. So if the decision was of my own making, and it was made with the full support of my husband, what is so hard about the question, "What do you do? A Gap Where Personal Accomplishment Once Lay To answer the question I have to admit for now, and maybe only for now, that I am not using the education I worked so hard for and that the career ambition I once clung to so tightly, I have simply let slip away.
It is to acknowledge that the forward progress that begins when we move from the first year of nursery school to the second has stalled. Not long after leaving my job I was still answering the question of what I did with what I used to do.