You thought they cared about you. At least as much as you cared about them. They never intended to commit. To them, you were an almost.
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The one who was almost good enough. You are entitled to want it to be something.
And you are entitled to think it could be. You are entitled to invest your care, your attention, your time in something you want. You do not need to base your emotions on theirs!
I’ve never been in love
You are even entitled to misread the signals. You are entitled to make mistakes. I'm Truly Sorry Share this poem:. Marissa Gertmenian. Autoplay next video. Read this poem in other languages. This poem has not been translated into any other language yet. What do you think this poem is about? They have habits or beliefs that make it impossible to co-habitate with the person they love.
There isn't a couple out there that loves every little thing about one another. Sure, they may find certain quirks cute or unique, but they don't love them; they simply accept them. There are some people who have such habits, tendencies, or thinking patterns that really do make them incompatible with the other person. The two may love each other fully, because remember, love isn't rational, yet not be able to live and deal with each other forever.
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This is why relationships require compromise. You're not going to love everything about the person you are with, but you love enough about him or her to live with the things you don't love. Not all people are willing to, or even able to, compromise. Sometimes it just doesn't work, regardless of what our emotions tell us.
1. Define what makes it an impossible love
Compromising, of course, is a choice. You either choose to make it work or you choose not to. I believe this fully.
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As long as something doesn't go against your nature, over time you can make it work. But there are still some cases when compromising isn't enough. Sometimes there are other reasons two people cannot and will not ever be together. In fact, this is usually the deciding factor of whether or not two lovers will be capable of spending their lives together: if they are able to forgive and forget.
Because love is as intense an emotion as one gets, it occasionally leads us to make poor choices — choices that are hurtful to the ones we love. They may be poor calls of judgment, lies we told or things we said.
When it comes to love, our pasts haunt us. We move from relationship to relationship, hauling all that luggage we managed to accumulate in our previous relationship. Because lovers who can't work together don't like to accept this fact, they have a tendency of breaking up and getting back together repeatedly.